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            CBSE starts counselling for board exams 
            
            
            
             
              In an 
              attempt to address anxieties of students and parents, the Central 
              Board of Secondary Education (CBSE) will start from Wednesday the 
              first phase of counselling for those appearing for board 
              examinations this year.
            
            
            
            
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              New Delhi: It's that 
              time of the year when tension runs high, anxiety grips the minds 
              of parents and students who are concerned about just one thing -- 
              board exams! But help is just a call away as many helpline numbers 
              are active to overcome exam stress. 
               
              "The CBSE (Central Board of Secondary Education) started its 
              helpline Feb 1 to help students deal with anxiety and syllabus 
              issues, suggest time management techniques and provide career 
              guidance," Rama Sharma, spokesperson of the exam controlling body, 
              told IANS. 
               
              "It is our first phase of counselling for those appearing for 
              board examinations this year," she added. The exams begin in March 
              and end mid-April. 
               
              "There is a make or break junction synonymous with board exams. 
              Students need to make realistic evaluation of the situation. We 
              make them understand that exams are not the end but just another 
              milestone in their lives," Sharma said. 
               
              The helpline can be accessed at toll-free number 1800-180-3456 
              between 8 a.m. and midnight. The number will be opertional till 
              April 16. 
               
              "The helpline will resume when the results are out. In the first 
              phase, we will help students during the preparations and in the 
              second phase we will counsel students who feel low after not 
              scoring well," the spokesperson said. 
               
              According to psychologists, soaring expectations, the urge to 
              secure a place in college or even getting the choice of stream in 
              school lead to stress in students. But the widening gap between 
              parents and children adds most to the pressure. 
               
              "Children need an outlet where they take their problems," Sandeep 
              Vohra, consultant psychiatrist and psychotherapist at Apollo 
              Hospital, told IANS. 
               
              "When stress levels go beyond the child's endurance, they become 
              non-communicative, lose interest in everything and start 
              withdrawing from family and social life. Students may consider 
              suicide an easier option than facing their parents and relatives 
              after failure," he added. 
               
              According to statistics by the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), 
              2,479 students committed suicide due to failure in 2010. Of them, 
              2,057 were in the 15-29 age group. The remaining students were out 
              of this range. 
               
              Experts feel it is important for parents to identify the 
              behavioural changes their child is going through and consult a 
              counsellor if the child is withdrawing or hesitating from 
              confiding in. 
               
              It is not just the CBSE helpline that is a saviour for students. 
              NGOs such as Snehi and Aasra have also been running exam helplines 
              for students in distress. 
               
              "Students come to us when other alternatives do not work. We are 
              not critical or judgemental," said Johnson Thomas, director of the 
              Mumbai-based helpline Aasra. 
               
              "We just try to get them talking about their issues and empower 
              them to take positive decisions which enrich their lives, rather 
              than doing anything reckless," he added. 
               
              While Aasra's 24X7 helpline can be reached at 91-22-27546669, 
              Snehi runs Disha exam helpline on the number 011-65978181. Disha 
              is active from Feb 1 till March 3. 
               
              "In 2011, we attended 1,582 calls related to exams stress. Out of 
              these 1,403 callers were students who were psychologically 
              distressed and emotionally perturbed," Snehi director Abdul Mabood 
              said. 
               
              "We also received calls from 179 parents and relatives of students 
              and helped them to handle situational stress," he added 
               
              School principals echo the opinion of sensitising parents, a key 
              to deal with emotional turmoil that students could get into during 
              this time. 
               
              Said Madhulika Sen, principal of Tagore International, Vasant 
              Vihar, south Delhi: "Parental pressure is a major reason for exam 
              stress. Therefore, we also counsel parents of Class 12 students. 
              We tell them that pressurising the child to perform better will 
              only worsen things." 
  
              
               
              (Shikha Nehra 
              can be contacted at shikhanehra92@gmail.com) 
               
  
              
               
                
              
                
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